Friday, July 07, 2006

TRUE HAPPINESS

Really true happiness is not measured by what I possess but it is determined by who I am. I may be the richest person in the world with money, jewels, gold, what have you but if I'm an underhanded person or a person who cares nothing about his neighbor, then my worth and happiness is zilch.

To be truly happy one must care about other people more than themselves. They must have a helping spirit, that when seeing a brother in need, they don't hesitate to help. One has to have a close relationship with God, other people and like themselves in order to be really happy. Happiness comes from not only having what you need but having enough to share with those around you.

I believe we all should start each day by asking God to show you how we can be a helping hand to anyone that needs help. It makes you feel really good to know that you've helped someone out in some way. Look around and somewhere you'll find someone that needs maybe, just a cheerful word or a smile. Just something as small as a smile and a wave can warm the heart of a shut-in. A cup of water to the city worker that works all day in the hot sun trying to fix your stopped up sewer pipes . Little things always bring great rewards. Don't think that just because it's something small that it won't be appreciated.

Go visit a shut-in or a nursing home. There are always people there that welcome just about anyone anytime. Tell a fairy tale to a child who is being raised by a single parent, who works all day and needs some rest. Help a single parent by volunteering to watch their kids for a while. Buy groceries for someone you know who needs them. Cards, letters and phone calls can cheer up just about anyone. Lend an ear to someone who has a problem and needs someone to talk to.

These things don't take a lot of time to do but it does take getting up off your haunches and doing something for someone. Get your mind off yourself for a while. We were not born into this world just to do for ourselves. We were put here to praise and glorify God and serve Him in all we do, that's our first and foremost assignment as a human being. The second is helping out other people, after that is when we turn our attention onto ourselves. Living our lives this way may seem hard to realize but believe me, rewards with come and you be in good standing with God Almighty. Not only that but you'll feel so much better when you live this. Keep your priorities in order which are..............GOD........neighbor..........self.

True Happiness is Determined by Who You Are...............Not by What You Possess.